Women must get numbers of guys hitting them with that pick up line. In the name of God, that is so lousy! That might sounded sweet a decade ago, but now? Forget it! Girls do not fall for thins like that anymore. If a guy is trying to attract women by using that kind of pick up lines today, the girls will laugh, and by laugh it means that they will laugh at the guy, not with the guy. Trying to look cool in front of women should not be done too hard because instead of being liked, the guy will more likely to be laughed or left behind. The nature of dating is finding the natural attraction instead of the one that is forced.

Knowing this and taking it to the heart, a guy should understand that the best way to approach a woman is by letting it go with the flow. A saying “The hard way is the only way” does not work in dating. Doing it smoothly IS the only way to go. Trying too hard will only make a guy fake himself and that is not a good start to build a connection and moreover, a relationship. So men should better stop asking for a map to women and start make a real connection.